What's the difference between falling out of love and being bored with a relationship? I've only ever been in one real relationship and we moved in together 2 months after dating(very soon but w.e.) Now we're bored..there's no excitement and nothing to really look forward to as a couple. We've been together for a year and a half now and I know it would hurt not to be with her but I haven't felt butterflies, or lovey dovey feelings in a long time..What do I do? It has gotten to the point were we want to see other people for excitment but don't not want to be together? Does that even make sense? We spend almost every moment together, and have tried to fix this before by going on 'breaks' but they only last a couple hours a time..lol I need advice..help!